Before I even start, please forgive my derogatory language in this post. I woke up feeling like shit.
Life can be fucking hard. Especially as a mid-twenties male in a third world country with no inherited wealth. Should you focus on the money? The women? Living your best life? After all, these are your prime years, you will never get them back.
I chose to follow the money after trying the other two options. It’s been a rough past few years. The grind is lonely and often misunderstood. Most people believe you are succeeding while you are also experiencing the worst of your lows. As a result of this, you start becoming more and more distant from your old friends. When it comes to women, you barely bother because like everyone else, they believe you are winning. You are not sure you if they want you for you or you for your “money” (that which they think you have). Trust issues begin to surface, less and less people talk to you since you’re almost always grinding while they party.
In moments like this, I am alone in the dark, blurting out to the entire internet my problems. Truth be told, I know no one gives a shit. Oh, poor you! At least you have something going, quit whining! I know… At this point I probably sound like I’ve got some type of split personality disorder.
Anyway, where does love come from? I wrote about this in my book, How to Flirt. This book was written when my focus was primarily women and I made a science out of it (getting women) to get repeatable results. The problem with this approach is that while you can end up with whoever you want, it is primarily done through psychological manipulation. They will fall for you; love you even but you won’t love them the same way you would have if you had just let nature take its course. It feels like the genie situation where you wish for something but forget the consequences of your wish. Imagine wishing to be loved and getting someone insanely in love with you but in exchange, you don’t feel love for the person falling for you. What’s the point?
I can’t see them coming down my eyes, so I’ve got to make the song cry. That’s what I was listening to as I wrote this. The lyrics resonate with me. I spend an uncomfortable amount of time quite sad on the inside but it never shows. Laughter, smiles and a million phone calls later, I trick myself into holding it together.
Sometimes. Sometimes I feel like pulling the plug and saying fuck it to this game. Not today though. Not today.
Despite all these, life is a game and a fun one too. This thought dump has helped release all the internal qualms. Life is magical. Now, here we fucking go! Let’s make magic together. Let’s get it!